Randa haak obituary
What has been impressed upon the subconscious mind while we were children and in hypnotic brainwave states has become the maps we use to navigate our adult lives. All human beings are born asleep, but again, we don't know it. The lens that we view life through is tainted but we don't know it.
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I can show you how to find the ROAD BACK TO YOU!Īs codependents we tend to attach and in the attaching to some external relationship, person, or experience, we detach from the self.Ĭodependency is a faulty way of viewing the self as well as the world. Stop REACTING to what happens outside of you, and learn how to CREATE the life you DESIRE from the most AUTHENTIC and HONEST parts of you! The GREAT NEWS is, with my 12 Week Breakthrough Program, transformative guided meditations, and my 1-2-3 Emotional Detachment Technique, you can RADICALLY transform your subconscious mind and FINALLY liberate yourself from toxic generational patterns of the past!
However, unless you AWAKEN and learn to REPROGRAM your SUBCONSCIOUS MIND your life will continue to unfold as a mirror of your painful past. Your blueprints for relationships, careers, self worth, financial wealth, and even your physical health were created in childhood, and by the way Dear One, that's not your fault. This means that what you observed consistently over time in your childhood, has become your default way of viewing yourself as well as the world. Up until the age of seven, children are in THETA hypnotic brainwave states. Learning to live above the veil of consciousness, is your opportunity to heal the generational trauma responsible for codependency. These traits are survival strategies we have yet to outgrow. As children, these survival strategies helped us avoid more pain, yet as adults, these same coping mechanisms drive us to develop people-pleasing traits and codependent tendencies that have been accepted as truth by the subconscious mind. Our conditioning forces us to deny our feelings and to worry more about others than ourselves. We believe our worth is tied to how useful we can become, often to those with little empathy. We are adults who have lost our identities and live in servitude to others.
The unpredictable nature of our childhood homes, left us needing to abandon the self for the sake of focusing on others. Our scars are invisible, even to us, which can leave us locked within subconscious loops of self sabotaging habitual thinking and behaviors, such as codependency.Īdult children of alcoholics and those of us who were raised by immature or narcissistic parents, struggle to admit that our childhoods left us with emotional scars. We never feel good enough, and self neglect. Our sense of worth is tied to the approval of others, which leaves us sensitive to the slightest of criticisms. In the throes of addiction, we can run from our invisible scars. We are haunted by shame, and blame ourselves for things we are not responsible for. No one taught us how to process or regulate our emotions and as a result, we are then prone to food, chemical, and relationship addiction. Feeling ignored has caused us to repress our needs, minimize our pain, and accept whatever crumbs fall into our lap. We have trouble finding our purpose in life, and our thinking can be disorganized. As adults, we NEVER ask for help and believe we must tackle life's hardships completely on our own. Childhood emotional neglect leaves us with TRUST ISSUES.